Hi, I’m Lee Bonvissuto (they/them).
I believe our voices are vehicles for liberation—from distraction, internalized anxiety, and systemic oppression.
At PresentVoices, I help people feel more comfortable communicating by using systems thinking to create structure in spontaneous speaking moments. I believe we all communicate with confidence well when we feel seen, safe, and supported.
It’s my life’s work to dismantle systems silencing voices in our society so we’re listening to—and being led by—more types of people.
Combining backgrounds in neuropsychology and theater direction, I started to do this work in public hospitals, helping front-line staff communicate in high-stakes settings.
Over the past ten years, I have helped thousands of people across industries be more powerfully present at the world’s leading companies.
My work has been featured in Forbes, Success Magazine, Harvard Business Review, Bustle, Real Simple, and Communications Week.
Speaking Topics
The key to confidence is comfort
What if the key to confidence was making ourselves—and those around us—feel comfortable. If you lose your train of thought, get nervous when speaking up in meetings, or over-think until you’re overwhelmed, we’ll discuss tools to help us all cultivate conversational comfort.
Intentional and inclusive leadership
The best leaders help their teams feel seen, safe, and supported, but most leaders don’t have the time to be as intentional as they want. Participants will learn clear communication techniques to facilitate and lead team meetings and give feedback with more effectiveness and ease.
Liberating our voices from silencing systems
Too many voices are not being heard due to silencing systems—from internalized anxiety to systemic oppression. To hear from more voices, we have to prioritize presence—for ourselves and those around us—over perfection and how we’re being perceived.
Virtual spaces are personal spaces
Are you hearing from all voices in hybrid meetings, or is it the same few folks speaking up? Helping leaders and teams communicate, connect, and collaborate in hybrid settings is key to productivity and inclusion. Participants will learn how to hear from more voices on Zoom and build inclusive cultures where everyone feels seen, safe, and supported speaking up and showing up.
Check out my thoughts on Executive Presence (oh how I hate the term!) in conversation with some of my favorite coaches for the WIE Suite
Last month, I gave a TEDx talk at SUNY Cortland about how we have to feel seen, safe, and supported to show up and speak up as ourselves. I talked about how far too many people are silenced by internalized anxiety and systemic oppression and how we can use comfort to be powerfully present in our interactions instead of trying to project confidence or “executive presence”. Watch the TEDx talk here (and let me know what you think!)
Lee talks to Fuzia about helping people build vocal power and practice being present in impromptu and public speaking moments.
On-camera meetings aren’t going away, and they can be particularly nerve-wracking for people with anxiety. This article offers five questions to ask yourself to help quell on-camera meeting stress
Check out my interview with Hat Not Hate, an anti-bullying platform, where I talk about safety, bodily autonomy and gender identity.
I’m excited to speak at #Rise, a virtual conference for professional women on May 10th & 11th! I’ll be presenting my workshop on how to maximize your presence in a virtual corporate world at #PBWC2022, a 2-day virtual conference designed to inform, engage, uplift and inspire. Join me and thousands of women and allies from around the world.
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"Within three sessions of working with Lee, I saw and experienced significant growth. Lee's theoretically, empirically, and practically supported methods have helped arm me with tools to strengthen, empower, and trust in my distinctive voice."
U.S. Military Officer
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"Through this work and the collective, I found myself feeling more comfortable and confident in situations that used to intimidate me."
Medical Director
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"The single best professional development training I have taken part in."
Zachary Rosen, CEO at Pantheon